I grew up in a household of opposing forces and division.
My parents were both neglectful emotionally, for very different reasons.
I was confused and fearful and thought humans were insane, dangerous, and judgemental.
If I controlled and caretook people who were damaged I would be safe.
I pursued a music career and left it due to cervical cancer, collapsed in my trauma after my friend overdosed, only later to find myself married to another addict.
I had to address my trauma or pain or I was going to die. My soul knew there was another way.
After leaving my marriage at 29, I deepened in my codependence recovery sending me on an unstoppable path of the pursuit of healing, truth, love, and happiness.
I never fit into a box. I was a free thinker and lover. Since 25 I have explored variations of open relating, but never really went too far because I didn’t think I could. I wanted to go further but my husband and I didn’t have the tools, knowledge, and support necessary to pursue it.
I ended up leaving him to find myself in a relationship with a top expert in communication.
I studied relationship deeply, obsessed with wanting to learn how to do it well. We had a profound love, but we were not configured properly. We both changed ourselves out of our integrity and truth make it work.
We segued our partnership and I decided to come out and claim my full authentic self without shame: queer, poly, and an explorer of kink. I dedicated myself to end hiding in every area of my life.
I then met Michael Author.
My life shifted dramatically from that point. I felt like I could finally be myself 100%. I also felt safe. I finally met someone on a similar life trajectory dedicated to growth as their number one value. We both are open and queer and dedicated to supporting other like minded weirdos in s*x and relationship.
Personally, I work with fem identified growth oriented entrepreneurs wanting to expand their play, s*xual range and expression. I also support them to have the tools to communicate, connect, configure properly, and create mutually relationships.